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Thursday, September 15, 2016

Hillary Clinton and Millennial Contempt

by Chris Alarie

Recent polls show a tightening of the presidential race between Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump. But rather than Trump poaching voters from Clinton, the race is closer now largely because significant segments of voters are choosing to back third (and fourth) party candidates Gary Johnson, a Libertarian, and Jill Stein, of the Green Party. Four-way polls consistently show that these two candidates draw more support away from Clinton than they do from Trump. Interestingly, Johnson and Stein both find high levels of support from millennials, voters age 18 to 29. Clinton's problem with younger voters and the way that she and her supporters respond to it demonstrates a larger problem within the Democratic Party and our society as a whole: the mutually reinforcing contempt between Baby Boomers and millennials.

The Democratic primary contest between Clinton and Bernie Sanders was much closer than Clinton and her allies within party leadership expected thanks in large part to millennial voters' strong preference for Sanders over Clinton. While Clinton eventually won the nomination,1 she has struggled to win the support of those young voters. Even Clinton's vaunted and all important advantage with non-white voters is significantly less pronounced with young minorities. Her message from the primary that she is the most experienced candidate did not register with a generation that has come of age in an era where the consequences of the economic failures of the Baby Boomer generation have fallen hardest on the youngest cohort. Indeed, Clinton's decades of experience may be more of a burden than a boon in her efforts to connect with millennials. Young voters see her as a part of the corrupt political and business establishment that wrecked the economy and housing market just as the millennials began to graduate from college. Her close ties to the finance industry and her penchant for raking in corporate speaking fees do not help matters.2 These sorts of qualities are not appealing to young voters. In a Harvard IOP poll conducted late last year, voters between the ages of 18 and 29 put significantly more value in "integrity", "level-headedness", and "authenticity" than either business or political experience as the most important qualities for a presidential candidate. Simply put, millennials do not trust Hillary Clinton.

Since she clinched the Democratic nomination, Clinton has made some efforts to appeal to young voters. But she has mostly waged her general election campaign under the seeming assumption that millennial voters—who are more progressive than previous generations, dislike Donald Trump much more than they dislike her, and have overwhelmingly supported Barack Obama—will come around eventually. Indeed, if she paid any heed to millennial concerns about her lack of trustworthiness and long standing connections to wealthy elites, she likely would not have spent the better part of the late summer fundraising from those elites at private events. However, these recent poll numbers indicate that Clinton erred in her assumption and millennials are not, in fact, coming around. Clinton's supporters are not happy about this development. But rather than express frustration with their candidate for failing to pay anything other than lip service to the concerns of young voters, Clinton supporters have taken a different tack—one that is generally common among Baby Boomers on a whole number of subjects: blaming the millennials themselves.

A tweet from Mother Jones co-editor Clara Jeffery is representative of the response by older Clinton supporters3 to these recent polls:
Some frustration on the part of Clinton supporters is understandable. Clinton, for all her serious flaws, is nowhere near as bad as the rolling disaster and looming existential threat that is Donald Trump. And Clinton supporters can make the case that their candidate has made a genuine attempt to address millennial concerns with her domestic policy agenda. But this response, in addition to being so obviously condescending, completely misunderstands the situation. Sure Clinton has made some small effort to appease millennials with her genuinely progressive domestic policies. But by continuing to comport herself as the ultimate, experienced insider, she is completely ignoring the central issue of her trustworthiness that is so important to those voters. Also, by assuming that millennials will consolidate behind her now that she is the Democratic nominee overestimates how significant party loyalty is to a generation that generally prefers to eschew the sorts of identifiers and labels that matter so much to Boomers and Generation X. Clinton's overreliance on the threat of Donald Trump's near guarantee of chaos and her championing of herself as the solemn, serious defender of the status quo ignores how badly the status quo has been for young people. Millennials supported Bernie Sanders because he was genuine, trustworthy, and revolutionary. Hillary Clinton has made no effort to be any of those things yet she still expects those same voters to support her. In reality, she is actively pushing young voters toward two candidates even more flawed than she by refusing to take any of young voters' concerns seriously

This follows a typical pattern of interactions between Boomers and millennials on any of a number of subjects. Boomers, by the virtue of antecedence, are in large part responsible for the conditions of the world that the millennials are in the process of inheriting. For a whole host of reasons, the Boomers have been far less than satisfactory in their role in this process. When millennials offer criticism, the Boomers actively ignore the concerns of millennials, belittle them, and complain about how different they are from how the Boomers were at a similar stage in their generational development, all the while refusing to acknowledge their own dramatic failings. It has even led to a laughably terrible journalistic genre known as "Millennial Bashing". This is, essentially, what Clinton, her Boomer supporters, and her campaign surrogates have done throughout the election. And while it is ultimately unlikely to cost her the election, it is at least putting it at risk. It also leads me to wonder if there is a looming generation schism within the Democratic party and progressive politics in general.

One of Clinton's more pathetic attempts to pander to younger voters is her campaign's laughably out of touch use of memes and internet culture.4 Perhaps the meme researchers on her campaign need to familiarize themselves with Old Economy Steven. In this meme, a photo of a teenaged Baby Boomer from the early 1970s is overlaid with, at the top, a typical Boomer complaint about millennials and, at the bottom, some assertion demonstrating either how much easier it was for Boomers when they were young or how badly they have failed the younger generation in the intervening years. It is, as Kevin Roose and Stefan Becket write, a "wry commentary on the way today’s young people struggle with student debt, unemployment, and other recession-era economic concerns, only to be described as lazy and entitled by members of an earlier, luckier generation." It is also the meme that far and away best represents how millennials and Hillary Clinton view each other. Were she to adopt it, it would likely be one of the first times that younger voters could feel that she is being authentic. That honesty alone would not be enough for her to garner their support, but perhaps it would be a first step toward the candidate acknowledging the concerns of a crucial segment of her electorate.


Chris Alarie is Spectacular Editor-in-Chief of Uncanny Valley Magazine.



1 And the endorsement of Senator Sanders.
2 Nor does her reluctance to divulge the content of her speeches.
3 Born in in 1967, Jeffery is actually right on the cusp between Boomers and Generation X. But her attitude fits squarely within the typical Boomer view of millennials.
4 Both Gary Johnson and Jill Stein have made similarly pathetic attempts to glom onto meme culture. Trump, on the other hand, has been adopted by a particular sector of the internet with a love of both frog memes and white nationalism.

Monday, June 29, 2015

'Boy Meets World' Fosters Unrealistic Romantic Expectations

by Chris Alarie

One of the most insipid journalistic trends of recent years is the preponderance of articles dissecting, quantifying, and criticizing the supposed tastes, behaviors, and personality flaws of the generation known as the Millennials. Key among these articles is a sub-genre criticizing the supposed inability of Millennials to engage in healthy romantic relationships—ostensibly the result of a “hookup culture”. While these articles—including those from that paragon of Millennial-bashing, the New York Timesare obviously ill-conceived, 1 there is some truth to the idea that the current generation is not getting married as young or at as high of a rate as previous generations. The reasons for this are complex and myriad, but there is one key cause that I believe has been overlooked: the unrealistic romantic expectations fostered by the 1990s teen drama Boy Meets World.

For seven seasons from 1993 through 2000, Boy Meets World aired on ABC as a part of its TGIF programming block.2 The story of a young, Jewish boy, Cory Matthews, and his experience growing up in Philadelphia with his suspiciously un-Jewish family,3 Boy Meets World centered on Cory's romantic relationship with Topanga Lawrence, whom he would marry by the end of the series. The relationship—which, through some retconning, was depicted as being essentially lifelong—is idealized to an almost obsessive degree, not only by Topanga and (especially) Cory, but by everybody around them. Even the show's other central relationship—that between Cory and his James-Dean-lite best friend, Shawn Hunter—is heavily influenced by the Cory-Topanga relationship.

While Shawn is depicted as being envious of a number of aspects of Cory's life throughout the series (his functional family, his relative wealth, etc.), his jealousy of Cory and Topanga's ostensibly perfect relationship becomes one of his defining characteristics by the end of the series. In the middle seasons, Shawn's popularity with girls is shown to be one of his few advantages over Cory and one of the few things that brings him happiness in his otherwise troubled life. However, as the characters age and Cory and Topanga become more focused on their romantic relationship, Shawn becomes increasingly more jealous—not of Topanga for having replaced him as Cory's primary partner but rather of Cory and Topanga's relationship. In fact, he spends much of the later seasons desperately searching for “something like what Cory and Topanga have.” In particular, his more realistic, on-again, off-again relationship with Angela during the last three seasons is explicitly contrasted with the stability and magic of the Cory-Topanga union. Apparently, this has continued into the recent companion series/reboot, Girl Meets World, which depicts the same characters now in adulthood:



While the causes behind the lower marriage rate for Millennials are complicated and multivariate, I believe that a key component is that, in a sense, many of us are like Shawn: unable to settle down because we are desperate for a perfect relationship like Cory and Topanga's. Millennials are noted for our idealism, and I believe that a frustrated sort of idealism is a key factor in our lower marriage rates. Many of us are delaying marriage because we have not found our Topanga4 and rather than accept a realistic, flawed relationship, we are idealistically pursuing the mystical unicorn that is a Cory-Topanga style relationship. And, loathe as I am to give Buzzfeed credit for anything, that website sort of manages to illustrate this phenomenon, in a roundabout way, by identifying the problem and then simply reinforcing it in a listicle of “cute” and “heartwarming”5 GIFs entitled “20 Ways Cory And Topanga Gave You Unrealistic Expectations About Relationships”.

This insipid pseudo-journalism accidentally demonstrates how surprisingly influential this particular 1990s teen comedy6 has been in setting unrealistic romantic expectations for an entire generation,7 serving, in part, to hinder that generation from settling into marriage and other established relationships in a manner similar to previous generations.8 Some anecdotal evidence would seems to reinforce my claims, as I have had a number of conversations with unmarried Millennial friends about these topics. In these conversations, I have observed both a tendency toward what I see as unrealistic romantic expectations and a willingness to identify Boy Meets World as a partial source of those expectations. As my friend Amy told me, “Yeah man, Topanga fucked me up!”

Chris Alarie is Senior Editor-in-Chief of Uncanny Valley Magazine.




1 One of the best takedowns of the arguments about the supposed hookup culture comes from, of all places, Jezebel.



2 The show has also aired in syndication in perpetuity over the last decade and a half.



3 The issue of Cory's singular Jewishness within his non-Jewish biological family is never explicitly addressed at any point in the show. But it reads loudly as subtext. This isn't actually relevant to my main argument, however.



4 And everyone seems to be looking for their Topanga, never their Cory—even the women with whom I spoke said that they were looking for their Topanga. I don’t know if this is just because Cory was the main character of the show or if it is old fashioned sexism, with the man being associated with agency and the woman being a passive object of desire.



5 I am also generally loathe to use scare quotes, but I think it is appropriate in this particular usage.



6 For whatever reason, Boy Meets World seems to have been a surprisingly influential TV show for the Millennial generation.



7 The unhealthy, obsessive relationship between Ross and Rachel on Friends could also conceivably have a similar sort of influence. But all of the characters on that show are so deeply disturbing in a number of ways that it is difficult to imagine anyone other than a low-level sociopath looking to them as a model for any sort of behavior.



8 I should note that I don't necessarily think that this is a bad thing. I am not trying to make an argument in favor of or against marriage but rather try to explain the undue influence that Boy Meets World has had in regards to this issue.